What kind of performance, or location should Mae and Carlos take their baby to first, or what kind of creative project would you love to see them work on together?

Exclusive Interview: Carlos Valdes on Fatherhood, Broadway, and Baby Miles

March 11, 2025

Following teh revelation on Dax Shepard’s ‘Armchair Expert’ podcast, Archyde News secured an exclusive interview with Carlos Valdes, currently starring in Broadway’s Hadestown and recently revealed as the father of Mae Whitman’s son, Miles. We spoke with Carlos about juggling fatherhood, Broadway, and his blossoming family. Here’s what he had to say.

Life After “The Flash”: A Chat with Carlos Valdes

archyde News (AN): Carlos, thank you for taking the time to speak with us. The news about you and Mae and baby Miles has been making headlines. How are you adjusting to being a dad while performing on Broadway?

Carlos Valdes (CV): Thanks for having me. It’s definitely been… an adjustment! It’s a lovely chaos, realy. Juggling Hadestown and fatherhood requires a lot of scheduling and a truly unbelievable support system. I’m learning to embrace the sleepless nights and cherish every moment I get with Miles. He makes it all worth it.

Balancing Broadway Fame and Fatherhood

AN: Lauren Graham mentioned on ‘Armchair Expert’ that you’re “fantastic” in Hadestown. How has the Broadway community embraced you during this new chapter in your life?

CV: The Hadestown cast and crew have been incredibly supportive.They understand the demands of parenthood and have been so accommodating. There’s a real sense of family here, which has been invaluable. Plus, getting performance feedback from Mae after a show is always a highlight – she’s my toughest critic, but also my biggest fan.

Mae Whitman, Miles, and a Transcontinental Family

AN: Mae is currently in Ireland working on a project. How are you both managing a long-distance relationship while raising Miles?

CV: It’s definitely challenging, but we’re committed to making it work. We rely heavily on video calls and try to schedule visits as frequently enough as possible. Mae’s an amazing mother,and we both understand the importance of supporting each other’s careers. Though it’s tough being apart, we certainly know it’s temporary, and we’re doing everything we can to stay connected as a family. We even have family movie nights over Zoom!

The “Parenthood” Connection: Naming baby Miles

AN: Fans were delighted to discover the significance of Miles’ name, connecting it to Mae’s role in Parenthood.Was that a conscious decision?

CV: (Laughs) It was definitely a sweet coincidence! We loved the name independently, but once we realized the connection to parenthood, it felt even more special. It’s a subtle nod to a significant part of Mae’s life and career. It just felt right.

Looking Ahead: The Future for Carlos, mae, and Miles

AN: What are you most looking forward to as Miles grows, and what’s next for you professionally after Hadestown?

CV: I’m looking forward to seeing the world through his eyes, experiencing everything anew alongside him. I want to be the kind of dad who encourages his curiosity and supports his dreams, whatever they may be. After *Hadestown*, I’m eager to explore more theater opportunities, perhaps even some film or television projects. Mae and I are always looking for ways to collaborate creatively, so who knows what the future holds? Mainly though, I am focused on spending quality time with my brand new family!

AN: as someone who has experienced both television (The Flash) and Broadway success, what advice would you give other parents navigating demanding careers in the entertainment industry?

CV: Be kind to yourself. It’s okay if you don’t get it all right, all the time. Prioritize communication with your partner, build a strong support network, and remember to carve out time for yourselves, both individually and as a couple. And most importantly, cherish every moment you have with your child – they grow up so fast.

AN: Thank you, Carlos, for sharing your time and insights with us. We wish you, Mae, and Miles all the best!

CV: Thank you!

AN: What kind of performance, or location should Mae and Carlos take their baby to first, or what kind of creative project would you love to see them work on together? Share your thoughts in the comments below!